PLEASE HELP ME!!! Please STOP the BULLYING! (etc.)

  please HELP!

 I am being bullied!

People around me are being bullied!

Please help us STOP the BULLYING!

Please stick up for Us!

For the Vulnerable!

For the Weak!

For the NICE!

(and for the crazy...enabling them is no good)

For those who are Different!

For those who are Bullied!

STOP supporting Bullies!

please Don't Help Bullies!

please DON'T be MEAN!

People have enough suffering and misery in their lives without you intentionally being mean to them...

Or..they are too high.

please help us feel safe and healthy!

Why make real LIFE humans suffer?  We do suffer for such bullying... WHY? Please be NICE!

DON'T BULLY!

Why Mad Bro?

STOP the BULYING!

what are they doing to people?

DO NOT SUPPORT BULLIES!
its really not funny...

DO NOT BE MEAN!

Why be mean?  Ask nicely and communicate please!

PLEASE! and THANK YOU!



Instructions:

Grab some teamers, team players,

People to be your team,

Your peripheral, people on your edge

Who are willing to help me.

And also help you by helping me and the situation, and thus not bothering you as much...

To minimize reflecting off, getting stuck, etc.

To miniize having to help polite people with children, etc.

I smoke, i have anxiety, they are mean and manipulative.

That means i might get anxiety and need to smoke or scream and have complete freedom of my body at any time.

Thus, the reason for helpful kind compassionate team people on your edges or peripheral that can help me.

Or if you have a situation where you can help yourself without children, that is cool too.

They use the children thing to control and manipulate the situation.

A lot.


Ok, Next step:

Jeez...  I have no idea...

Get them the fuck away from me!

Make them leave me alone, Forever!!!


Or...

We mediate with them...

And find out what they want.

And how we can come to a compromise.

To reduce a hostile situation,

To reduce compromising situations,

To reduce violent, aggressive, negative situations.


Help me mediate,

Help me communicate with them to find out what they want to get the whole situation...

Done and Over With!

DONE and OVER WITH!

Quickly and efficiently!

And Non-Violently!

Non-Aggressively,

WIthout them dominating, bossing me around, harassing me or abusing me,


And...

With a plan of action,

And Agreement,

That includes the "safety word"

Or whatever you would call it*

For them to Not Come At Me Again!

For any reason,

With negative intentions,

Plans for violence, aggression, abuse, manipulations, bullying, bossing around and dominating, wreaking havoc or overall creating a bad time of it,

At All!

None of it!

And an agreed upon plan of action for us to do quickly so that they will leave me alone and not come at me again with any negativity at all.

And an agreed upo plan of action for us to do so that they dont come around asking me for anything, asking me to do anything, expecting anything from me, at all.

THat would include holding on and waiting for their baby, for them to conversate and pass the ball or focus around and do this and do that to move over after accidentally ending up by me, or because they peed e or pooed me, or any other thing they would expect as normal treatment of them or common courtesy or ettiquette around them

by accidentally ending up by me or intentionally coming over to say hello or hang out or sanding guard to control their energy fields and money... whataver the reaon...


It might be a long effort to get everything finally set up the way it should be if it were appropriate with the current social envornment and them having always been around,


But I need, need, need people to help mediate a clear and concise plan of action to get to a point where they are not bothering me or being mean in any way,

and dont plan on being mean,

even if we end up near eachother.


That means there should be a solution-oriented plan and communication with a clear idea of what we are to do to make peace, respectfully,

And to come to some agreement, outwardly without secret creepy whatevers from them since they are or have been the evil side,

But some sort of agreement where we have a safe word,

And with it comes a whole plan of action of

What I can do to stick up for myself, that they will hear or understand and respond non-violently and favorably to upon the agreement.

Meaning, a safe word and actions that can happen like Now, Today, Anytime, with whatever resources I have and Skill Level I am at where they will Hear Me Saying "Leave Me Alone"

Or whatever is being communicated in regards to space, not being mean, dont bother me, dont come too close, grab you, dont get upset at me if i keep on rolling with what i am doing, or dont want to talk at all, or anything like that, 

And the agreed upon repercussions for their actions if they hurt me, harass me, abuse me, etc.

That will actually make a difference, and is something I can do Now, Today, Any Time, with whatever resources I have and skill level I or anyone else is at,

And they will listen, they will turn off the killer, murderer, creepy evil sociopathic creepazoid, 

Without being embarassed, offended, affronted, pissed off at me, cheated because they had to let me win, or frustrated because they have to do more work, or because they feel ruded, or whatever the reason....

None of the negative please,

None of the creepy roleplay,

And none absolutely none of the violence, aggression, domineering, bossy, manipulative, bullying, pushing around, beating up, or down right rude behaviour that could happen had they not remembered....


That we are celebrating a graduation here...

An evolution...

From one phase to the next,,,

It might not come wrapped in the package that we desire,

But we are One,

In some sense....

And this one is gonna wanna kill any mother fuckers who keep wanting to make me their bitch boy...

Just kidding...Im not kidding...

But really,

I dont know how else to transmute the movie into the next phase,

And we need to move on,

We need to talk about it,

We need friends around to help,

And we need no more negativity,

And we need a positive vision for the future...

And a clear plan of action,

Meticulous plan really....

And enough room and space to work on the plan...

Moving forward with the plan,

Is gonna take time,

And I need space to work on my part,

Because I need to move on with my movie too...


Thats why I need mediators,

A safe word with them,

A plan of action for positive responses,

And for negative ones such as punishment and repercussions, etc.

That they might want to do or I might want to do...


 We need a realistic plan of action for boundary setting

And positive and negative reinforcers,

Or even just a safe word type thing

That reminds them of negative repercussions we talked about,

And a slowly evolving comfort level with appropriate moving over type movies and humour for me


We need consistent people

And a route for me to have space and time with other people

And time to work on my movie, etc.

Without worrying about the situation with them,

(Confirmation of how i confidant can be they are not gonna be mean would be nice)

And a route and plan for the short term, shorter short term, and the longer term, and plenty of time for the longer long term,

And a plan of action of how to obtain people for that along the way,

Or whatever I would have to do...

But if I could be pretty darn sur they are not going to be bothering me... than its a little less worrisome of 

who can help cover me all of the time right now...


But a good plan f action,

And tools of how to handle it,

For Now,

And then also for later,

Would be good...


And I have tangeted and lost where I was...

I can rework this post later,

But we need people,

Mediation,

And a plan,

For moving foreword


Basically... It seems as though once we ha e gotten through the mediations of what is necessary,

There would be something about how to uphold integrity of the peace agreement

What routes of response to go through to quickly respond to possible threats of peace; meaning, where to run, wonto run to and how to remind them that we are practicing peace or how to scare them into doing peaceful good works instead of being mean(like a reminder or a fake threat or something)

And then how to get us to a peacefulz state quickly and efficiently and maintain it.

And once that is established we can begin work on where I go from here, how is jould move forward, how I should get out of this situation, who can help, how long all that is going to be and who is following along and helping and what all we are all going to work on for the bigger picture and community, etc.

It might seem like a lot of work because it might be...

It's like moving around, making friends, making money, learning skills and etiquette,

Staying safe, peaceful and living the higher life...

And then...

We can work on the bigger picture and community; meaning...

The other dreams of grandeur...

The ones I have planned.

And some of you are my bitches on this one (pun intended)

But mostly you can just read about it on blogs, and stay high and stay positive

And be my friend...

Because I have a lot of work to do.

And I no more fighting

And no more getting bullied

We gotta work together 

And be positive kind people...

But first we have to mediate and come to an agreement, an understanding with everyone,

Especially the ones who know that I know that they know what I'm talking about...

You know.

Stay high stay positive.

Namaste.


Thank you for reading.

<3


(Version #2 for now...mwah!)



Comments

  1. When people go out of their way to help be mean to someone, it can really negatively affect the other person. The one who obviously has someone around them that is being mean to them. What are the motivations for someone to be like that? I have no idea. To be the original mean person, or some other person that is helping them be mean to that other person...? I don't know why people do that... I first noticed it with the service industry... It is a thing people do to manipulate their environment or energy... But you can also...blast your music and get your exotic birds squawking every time you get home from work wiling up the neighbor's dog while they are still at work as a way to manipulate your environment...maybe you don't like to feel alone... I don't know...but sometimes the way you like to manipulate your environment affects other people more than you realize. And being intentionally mean to someone or HELPING someone else, be intentionally mean to someone else, is not alright...most of the time, it is not a goo thing to do. Whether you are trying a new way of manipulating your environment or upset about something...People do matter, people are important. We talk about compassion and empathy for a reason. If you can have faith that your compassion and empathy will keep you safe and out of dangerous. Then you can have faith that non-violence and healthy supportive communication and a positive effort can Win. I hope you understand its for peoples' souls, not population this or that, and people dont want to be struggling or suffering that much in their Life. Please consider the request; please dont be mean!

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