instructions on how to help for those I know and those who I don't know

I really don't want to have to do this again...

This isn't a game...

I've been trying and trying to do what they have asked of me,

And there is no consoling them,

It's just an excuse to talk and I have not been able to change their mind into talking about anything different,

I could just try and do it how they want....

And get a big movie going all webcammy style...

I thought I might do that after a mediation,

Just to get by a little easier with whoever volunteers to help me transition into a new life...

It's just that I was hoping to work with people I know,

Or people I might communicate with consistently,

Just to witness to make sure things go alright,

Or to help tutor in doing things correctly,

A lot of the difficult is that all the people I find go through my family and it ends up not going how I would like to with helping me....

So, this is like an effort to make the whole thing more successful and positive,

and also, hopefully help people with helping others,

inspiration and information and a hope that people will help and be kind,

That being said,

There are a few ideas on how to help the situation...

For people I used to know or acquaintances, etc.

(...i know im gonna have to do this again...im gonna make it fun eventually!...)

Here it goes...

Team up!

Grab some side-kick peripheral people to go in-between groups of people,

To help communicate and give freedoms,

And also to help not get upset about my mouth usage

And to be ready for a fight If there is fighting

It seems more appropriate for people with children with all the baby bullying that's been going on,

Some respectable space 

By coordinating your own personal team to help maintain communications,

And help maintain environment.

And respectable distance.

So...

Teamy.

Build you a team.

Next:

Choose your team!

Either me, the one being bullied,

Or the family, (the one bullying)

(Who often times has children)

(And knows how to hang with them, especially if you need to hanging the background)

Or the ex bf people, mostly young webcam type people. (the one bullying)

*essentially choose to help the victim or the bad guy, whatever your fortay.

Bullied one,

Or a bully:

Families

Or ex-bf with aliens

Now, this is not to say you don't get to be nice to the one being bullied.

To help a weakling, a victim of abuse and bullying...

You do get to help!

You do get to help!

Even if you team in with one of the other teams.

Step 2: choose a team

Step 3:

Help the one being targeted (the victim) with bullying in group dynamics,

That means, whatever team you are on; your mission is to help the one being bullied,

and be kind!

That means you get to cover whatever team and be the buffer people between the them and the bullied one or vice versa,

For example, if you choose families,

You get to be their ninja people and make sure that they keep from going over to the one who gets bullied, the target,

You get to help them stay in and away from the targeted one.

And if the bullied one, targeted one is near,

You are nearer that person until you are able to help them move away from the family or people you are teaming and covering.

If you are with the ex-bf people,mostly you g webcammer type people,

You get to cover them and hide them away from the bullied targeted one.

And make sure they dont go near that person.

And if that person is near them,

You get to help the bullied, or targeted one,.back over to where they were,away from the ex-bf people, or whoever you are teamimg for that group,

Mainly you help them not go over by the bullied one,

And help them peacefully move over if they all end up by eachother.

And third and not least,

The bullied one.

If you choose the bullied one as your team,

You get to cover and make sure that the targeted one is covered and does not go over by the other teams.

And if the bullied one does end up by the other teams,

You help the bullied, targeted one move over and safely away from the bullies,

The other teams that are bullies.

Some important things to remember:

Don't be mean

Do be communicative

Do be patient about mouth useage and stuff

Do be helpful

Do help!

And please do help the bullied one stay away from the bullies.,

And be nice!

So...

It's three steps:

Step one: build a team for yourself (baby bullies are not needed-please grab a cover)

Step two: choose a team of three teams:(victim, family and bullies, or ex-bf alien and webcammers)

Step three: cover and keep bullies away from the one being targeted as a victim who is being bullied, by being tjeir friend, or the friend of one of the teams who are bullies toward the victim,meaning be a buffer between bulkies and the bullied, and be nice to everyone, amd protect the bullied one who is bullied by baby bullies and webcammers and their own family, ex friends, etc.

Might I add here, that to one that is being targeted as bullied, they might have enemies at every aspect of the online world.  Or feel that way.  However, by having the ability's to play all sides and keep peace, we are able to help communicate and navigate the situation and get the victim, or bullied one, to a place of safety and in a safe environment for a little while.

It helps to help them think about where they are going, what their plans were and are now, if they know anyone who can hang out with them who is kind, if we know anyone that can hang with them that is kind, and who they might call or where they might go if they lose said people or if said kind people are not that kind, or if soemthing else happens...like that.. like, what youtube artists or facebook pages are good and what sites or groups might be good?  Its important to keep that as part of the conversation, because they might not be thinking about it or everyone might be too busy getting along to think where the target is going or who they are going to hang with.

Problem solving might not be socially acceptable yet, but thinking about it could inspire great things in social interactions.

This is one of those situations where they tried to portray it as tough love and just weirding someone to get them to not be lazy or to actively work on new world skills, on their own, like an adult!

But if the whole idea is to find friends and NOT be ALONE and that is why they are being targeted it helps to be a friend and help them find other friends, because we never know the situation.

The strategy being to tease and abuse and exile the person until they figure it out

And to only let it go on long enough until they get it and walk away and avoid further abuse and then the parties can make up

Except in this situation the abuse and manipulations were so extreme that the person just needs to get away from them,

And it's been a long time that they have been dealing with the situation, so they might just not get whatever the bullying and targeting and victimizing is suppose to be teaching or communicating...

Because it's not working very well,

No one has been swayed by the bullied one into being friends and helping,

And the bullying and targeting and stalking and controlling the victim has gotten to be ridiculous.

The person being bullied or made to be a victim is not the property of the other people, 

And they would prefer to not be around them,

*But the ones bullying or victimizing have refused to leave,

Things bullies do to try and manipulate the situation:

That being said,

Some things that the family and ex, the bullies, do to manipulate the situation....

-ask people to leave if they didn't choose you or ask you to help

(Remember you are there for them but for the bullied victim-so be nice but your suppose to cover them to separate the two)

-look at the victim like they are stupid, and ignore them asking for help

-and help people move over quickly instead of helping keep all bullies off the victim

-lie, force asleep, and then hurt the person while they are asleep or awake

-hack phone dramas

-pretend like the victim is their property

-pay people

-make deals with people

-make everyone obsess about the mouth usage, smoking, vaping, eating, drinking, talking or yelling of the said victim

-once it is established that the victim needs to make a correction and needs a friend to do it...

(No-one helps the victim)

-being so annoying that no one wants to hang out

-making it more difficult for the lives of the people who want to help

(Thus the need for a team for the one helping)

-distracting

-getting everyone wrapped up in a different movie

(This current alien movie has been around for a long time)

-ceremonies

-children stuff

-webcamming and making a higher amount of money

-dominating the situation

-making the movie take longer than it should

-making sure to walk it in to the victim every night as if they are family even if they are busy or working at getting away

-until someone else hides the victim

-that would mean people re-orienting their lives

-or making the movie sound difficult to accomplish so no one helps

-picking fights dominating conversation and doing things to get in the way of progress or the evolution of the movie

-winning over favoritism of people around victim

-threatening people or 

-being mean to people

-paying them off

-and hacking shit 

-and manipulating people

The strategy I have offered is the best I could come up with.

They have said I need to get a lot of people on my side,

Or intimidating people,

And recently have started saying I should do it like a webcammer

(If successful at swaying people)

Whatever they have instructed on how to resolve the movie is a roleplay for a game I do not want to be playing with them,

I would really like to get some people together to team in to the various teams and help with a mediation to resolve the situation through communication,

To safely bring the situation to resolution,

So that we can all safely move on.

And so that I can move on.

Please help resolve a bully shituation.

And please help me move on from a negative situation.

Please be kind, please be patient.

Please help.

*Also, they have said that I must not really want it because I still use my mouth around people or I didn't figure out how to do it right or because I haven't figured out how to get away and get them to stop coming after me....

-i need people for it to work to get away from them, at least at some point

-if I am to do it peacefully

-i don't know how else to do it

-people who are available for hanging out with us for a while

-people who can hang for long periods of time in my situation and environment

-people who are emotionally available for helping me figure out a safe environment

-people who are available to help me move over from them and hide from them or resolve the issues with them

And...

-i have stopped using my mouth around people

-and tried to coordinate people 

-to work together to move me over and hang with me until I could figure something out

-but all the bitching and drama wouldn't evolve into a new phase of helping

-my mouth useage is not the problem

-its people not taking seriously that that and my anxieties shouldn't be an excuse to not work with me and to leave me in a negative situation

-or can be challenging with my anxiety and sometimes it doesn't even seem right for people to make such a big del about my mouth usage

-why not just be prepared and work around it?

-its challenging enough for people to fathom that I would need to hang out with them and other people everyday with them teaming me until I can get into a safer situation, that's a big deal

-i mean, wouldn't I end up wanting or needing to use my mouth at some point?

-and I wish I wasn't trying to put people in that situation, but I have tried it other ways and it doesn't seem to work

-its would be nice if it could be done with just a few good tutors that want to hang for a couple of weeks, that might help

-people to help me into a better situation

-but I think some mediation and resolution and getting them to agreeing to leave me alone can be done with my family and old associates if we had some good mediators, people who can help with resolution thru communication first

-and then work on the more constant cover 

-and helping me figure out a safer environment

Foe the people I have known, used to know, or have associated with:

It would seem pretty simple and would easily not get in the way of your movie

To hang out with my family and ex-bf people 

And make sure they don't come over to me

While co-existing

And doing an alien movie together

Or whatever you do...

They are easy to be neighbors with or close by online with...

And making it easier for me to get some space from them would be much appreciated.

I would like to compromise with people but it's not really that awesome for me right now and hasn't been for a while and I'm really wanting to move on with my life...

Please help.

And please be ready for a movie of resolution.

Namaste.